Bring one thing.

THE UNBECOMING: LIVE

90 minutes · Live on Zoom · $97 USD
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October 29
5:00–6:30 PM Pacific Live on Zoom

What if the thing you’re trying to change isn’t actually the thing?

We often try to solve our lives at the level where the problem is showing up.

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We analyze the relationship. Control the reaction. Make another plan. Try to think differently. Tell ourselves we should know better by now.

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But sometimes what’s happening on the surface is being held in place by something underneath it.

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That’s where we’ll work.

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Bring what’s happening

Start with the thing that feels present for you now—the pattern, reaction, fear, belief, relationship, decision or experience you want to change.

2.

Follow what’s underneath

We’ll listen for the emotions, beliefs, memories and internal patterns connected to what you’re experiencing.

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Work with what we find

Rather than analyzing the problem from the outside, we work directly with what is holding it in place.

4.

Hear yourself
more clearly

As some of the internal noise settles, there can be more room to recognize what is actually true for you.

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5.

Create a different possibility

When something shifts internally, you may find that new choices, responses and possibilities become available.

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6.

Notice what changed

We return to the thing you brought and notice what is different—in your thoughts, emotions, body, beliefs or perspective.

Maybe you already know what the problem is.
You know you keep choosing the same kind of relationship.
You know you’re afraid to make the decision.
You know you keep abandoning what you want.
You know the reaction is bigger than what just happened.
You know what you should do—and somehow knowing hasn’t changed it.
Or maybe you can’t name it at all.
You just know something keeps repeating.
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​Bring that.

Come exactly as you are.

Bring one thing.

INSIDE THE UNBECOMING: LIVE

What’s included.

October 29 · 5:00–6:30 PM Pacific · ZOOM · $97 USD

You don’t have to come knowing what needs to change.
You don’t need the perfect words.
You don’t need to understand where the pattern started.
You don’t need to know which belief is underneath it.
And you certainly don’t need to figure it out before you arrive.
That’s the work we’ll do together.
You bring what is present.
We follow it.
We listen to what your mind, emotions, body, memories and patterns are showing us.
And from there, we work with what is actually asking to change.
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​Bring one thing.
I’ll guide you from there.

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MEET YOUR GUIDE

Hi, I’m Brandy.

For more than 30 years, I’ve studied the places where mind, body, energy and our deeper knowing meet—and for the last 11 years, I’ve worked professionally as a counsellor and coach.

My work brings together subconscious belief and pattern work, somatic awareness, nervous system support, energy work and spiritual principles through the Higher Self Method®.

The Higher Self Method® is my adaptation of Process Healing, the work of the late Dr. Gary Flint, integrated with the modalities and frameworks I’ve spent decades studying and practicing.

I can tell you about this work.

But there comes a point when explaining it is no longer the same as experiencing it.

That’s what The Unbecoming: Live is for.

You don’t need to understand the method first.

Experience it.

Bring one thing you’re ready to change, release, or experience differently.

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I’ll guide you through everything else.

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THE UNBECOMING: LIVE

Higher Self Method®
October 29 · 5:00–6:30 PM Pacific
90 minutes · Live on Zoom

$97 USD

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